Well I had a stalker, well as he said a "Little Stalker". Now this entry will be weird. Since on one hand its flattering to have a stalker come out in a tornado just to catch me with another dude. On the other hand, its extremely frightening to have a stalker come out in a tornado just to cath me with another dude.
Here's the other weird part. The reactions from my female and male friends. The ladies, in my opinion, went from stalker to rapist. They were scary in their intensity about this dude and how I should never ever talk to him again. I agree, but not because I think he is dangerous but because I do believe the potential for unneccesary drama is there and only the low self esteem chicks need to go there.
Now, in this society where we are trying to move away from blaming the victim if she happens to get raped my male friends all asked the question,"What did you to him?" At the time, I laughed but later I realized that this is the same mentality of blame the victim. Its as if that because we had a relationship prior and we spoke earlier about my plans for the evening that somehow I was to know he was crazy enough to come that night. What normal person would think that would happen?
So while, that night has become a bit of a joke. On a serious note, he was the idiot who disrespected me and my friends by showing up after I told him he was uninvited and that I'd diss him if he did. And that has nothing to do with me.
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